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Two months aft Bachelor Nation's Susie Evans and Clayton Echard announced their split, she reflected connected the lessons she's learned from the breakup.
Why Clayton Echard and Ex Susie Evans Are Still Talking
While it wasn't easy, Susie Evans knows she and Clayton Echard broke up for the close reasons.
Two months aft the Bachelor couple split, Susie reflected connected what she's learned.
"As clip passes, I'm starting to recognize that my biggest lessons from this breakup whitethorn really person been astir knowing myself amended and learning however to pass my expectations," she wrote successful a Nov. 21 post for her blog "Susie Was Like." "During this breakup much than immoderate before, I person truly 'done the work' and I americium inactive successful the process of moving done a batch of it."
Looking backmost astatine the extremity of their relationship, Susie recalled however she was successful a "low place."
"The radical astir maine could spot that my sparkle had dulled and I was acold from thriving," she continued. "Sure, I had joyous moments often, but heavy down I was struggling and felt misaligned with the champion mentation of me."
Trying to marque their narration enactment took a toll connected her. "It's emotionally taxing and not bully for the soul," the videographer wrote. "Not to mention, my Google hunt past was filled with questions like, 'Can you emotion idiosyncratic and not beryllium compatible?' I'm truly outing myself with that.. But, hey! We are getting susceptible here."
Ultimately, Susie knows the divided was for the best. "There is truthful overmuch much bully that has travel from this breakup, for some myself and Clayton," she concluded. "I deliberation yet we are some connected our mode to uncovering happiness wrong ourselves and our passions. I cognize for a information that we some are rooting each different connected from afar. Just due to the fact that thing wasn't forever, it doesn't mean it wasn't wonderful."
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Susie and Clayton met connected play 26 of The Bachelor, which premiered earlier this year. Though they parted ways connected the show, Clayton asked her to reconcile aft helium broke up with finalists Rachel Recchia and Gabby Windey. While Susie initially turned Clayton down, they revealed they got backmost unneurotic on After the Final Rose successful March.
Alas, six months aboriginal successful September, they announced they'd breached up.
"Although this past twelvemonth unneurotic has brought america truthful overmuch joyousness and truthful galore laughs, determination has besides been a important magnitude of pain," they wrote successful portion of a joint Instagram post. "We cognize nary steadfast narration comes without its struggles, but we've realized that we were not prepared for the outer forces that hindered our quality to not lone heal arsenic individuals but besides arsenic a couple. We some are focused connected continuing to enactment connected ourselves, truthful we tin beryllium the champion mentation of ourselves. This is not an casual clip for either of america but we basal successful enactment of each different and anticipation to spot the different spell connected to find happiness and healing."
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