David Burtka Reveals Why It's Bittersweet to Raise Pre-Teens

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David Burtka is detailing the parts of parenthood nary one can hole you for.

The Celebrity Dish host—who shares 12-year-old twins Harper and Gideon with Neil Patrick Harrisopened up about the heartbreak that comes with watching his kids turn close earlier his eyes.

"For me, it's truly been astir mourning your kids," David exclusively told E! News. "I'm successful mourning of seeing them turn and seeing them clip their wings and letting them beryllium their ain people."

The Broadway star, who said he's been the superior caretaker of the twins, explained that it feels bittersweet to recognize that his occupation "is starting to travel to an end."

"No 1 ever tells you that arsenic a genitor but it's inevitable," helium added. "It's chaotic to spot the kids they've become. It's astonishing and it's besides a small sad."

And portion David noted that everyone advises caller parents to bask each and each infinitesimal with their small ones, he's arrogant to accidental helium did precisely that.

"I'm truthful gladsome that I did bask those times, and took enactment disconnected and didn't bash immoderate Broadway shows and didn't spell connected determination to bash a movie," he shared. "I truly got to walk each waking infinitesimal with these kids, and it means truthful much."

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As for his words of contented to caller parents? He kept it simple, saying, "When you're with your kids, beryllium determination 150 percent. Don't beryllium connected your phone, don't beryllium multitasking. Be with them, it volition truly marque a difference."

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Although David's twins are becoming much independent, there's 1 area where they could inactive usage his and Neil's guidance: Cleaning up.

"I'm benignant of a cleanable freak and a small anal retentive and it's hard," David said. "My girl is getting it, but the girls mature overmuch faster than the boys, truthful helium inactive has a batch of reminding to do."

As helium enactment it, "You accidental things 150 times, and by the clip they're teenagers, you gotta fto it spell due to the fact that they're gonna larn by themselves."

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The chef, who partnered with Arm & Hammer Laundry, explained however moving with the marque has improved his family's home life.

"My girl is beauteous neat but my lad is beauteous messy," David noted. "He inactive has a occupation eating with his hands and helium gets his soiled hands each implicit his clothes. So I cognize that it's large due to the fact that I don't fto the stains set. I enactment it successful the laundry and it goes away."

David summed it up best, sharing, "It ne'er stops arsenic a parent."

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