How Hilarie Burton Morgan's Husband Jeffrey Dean Morgan Taught Her the Power of Saying No

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Hilarie Burton Morgan Talks FUN Moments From One Tree Hill

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You could accidental Hilarie Burton Morgan doesn't privation to beryllium thing different than what she's trying to beryllium lately. Which, at the moment, is being the multi-hyphenate (creator, producer, host) down Sundance TV's existent transgression series, It Couldn't Happen Here.

Two years after detailing her departure from the amusement industry, she felt called to instrumentality portion watching a arguable transgression lawsuit play out near Rhinebeck, New York, wherever she and hubby Jeffrey Dean Morgan settled to rise their 2 kids. 

"A young woman, who had been horrifically abused ended up shooting her partner," she elaborate of Nicole Addimando, who was recovered blameworthy of second-degree execution aft shooting the begetter of her children. (Her archetypal 19-year condemnation was reduced to seven-and-a-half years nether New York's Domestic Violence Survivors Justice Act.) 

Looking up the justice to talk retired astir his handling of the case, Hilarie "realized helium went to each the aforesaid foundation events I went to, we had a batch of the aforesaid friends, we ran successful each the aforesaid circles. And I realized what a roadblock that is." And if the prima of a precise popular, incredibly beloved play series felt that she couldn't talk out, "It was astir apt happening everyplace successful tiny towns wherever we don't needfully person the resources that you find successful larger cities for radical who are dealing with the judicial system."

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A lightbulb moment, it was compelling capable to person the native of Sterling, Virginia see uprooting her beingness connected the 100-acre workplace she shares with Jeffrey, their lad Augustus, 12, and girl George, 4, to assistance radiance a airy connected transgression cases inactive successful request of justice.

At slightest portion time, anyway. 

"For the astir part, our kids are raised successful the mediate of nowhere," the 40-year-old shared successful an exclusive interrogation with E! News' Francesca Amiker. "That's our life. And if I person to measurement retired of that successful bid to assistance retired these different families, I'm truly blessed to bash it."

Speaking out, loudly and often, arsenic a champion of women has go her M.O. she said, since she "quietly" departed her star-making gig arsenic One Tree Hill's fiercely autarkic Peyton Sawyer in 2009. Because "other women were wounded aft I left," Hilarie explained, referencing reported intersexual harassment by creator Mark Schwahn (claims he's ne'er commented on) and other allegations she and her costars person lobbied against him. "And there's a guilt determination that you don't ever rather get over, and I wont ever bash that again." 

If Hilarie, the actress, contented creator, advocator and mom of 2 could springiness her twentysomething aforesaid 1 portion of advice, it'd beryllium simple, she shared, "Say what you think." And she surely didn't clasp backmost erstwhile speaking to E!, recounting the travel she's taken from MTV's Times Square studios and North Carolina's fictional One Tree—and the lessons she's gleaned on the way. 

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E! News: What was your interest successful existent transgression before creating this show?
Hilarie Burton Morgan: I grew up extracurricular of [Washington,] D.C., truthful each parents enactment for the government, oregon the military, oregon immoderate subdivision of service. The FBI utilized to travel and scout our subject fairs and effort to find interns. I was going to Fordham astatine Lincoln Center erstwhile I archetypal moved to New York with the volition of going to their instrumentality school. And past MTV showed up and, you know, you instrumentality the amusive job.

I ne'er mislaid involvement successful this, but to maine it's truly important that I'm not a journalist, I americium not a lawyer. I americium a assemblage subordinate and speaking to radical from that presumption is truly important due to the fact that if we're not coming astatine these stories with empathy, we're vultures. We're being entertained by the worst time of idiosyncratic else's life. This is simply a amusement wherever you tin perfectly help. Audience information is simply a big, large cornerstone for our production.

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E!: As "fun" arsenic those aboriginal jobs astatine MTV and connected One Tree Hill were, you worked hard. What was that acquisition like? 
HBM: We worked 7 time a week during those years—me and my squad who had to prop maine up. I needed to beryllium to MTV however severely I wanted this due to the fact that they fto maine retired of my declaration to bash One Tree Hill. And I needed to beryllium to One Tree Hill, like, hey, I'll virtually bash thing to beforehand this show, which meant staying astatine MTV. Your actions talk truthful overmuch louder than your words. You get to accidental little erstwhile your actions backmost it up. So, bash the work. And you tin slumber later. Sleep is overrated.

E!: On the flip side, what has been your biggest enactment mistake and what did it thatch you?
HBM: During our breaks connected One Tree Hill, I precise overmuch wanted to delight my bosses. They knew that if we took movies it would beryllium a scheduling nightmare. And truthful I turned down tons of opportunities due to the fact that I wanted to beryllium a bully sport. Since being with my husband, I've learned that it's good to look retired for fig one. Because erstwhile you're good, the radical astir you are good. You don't ever person to beryllium the bully soldier.

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E!: What other person you taken from your husband's acquisition successful entertainment?
HBM: Seeing the mode helium is capable to accidental "no" to things, oregon the mode helium is capable to fto his hairsbreadth spell grey, oregon the mode helium is capable to contiguous himself successful nonrecreational situations, I've learned rather a batch astir saying what I think. And, lasting up for myself and doing things successful a mode that feels authentic to the some of america due to the fact that helium is my spouse successful everything. Our accumulation company, Mister Farm Productions, is simply a shaper for our amusement and he's visited 2 of the cases we've filmed this year. We truly effort to enactment arsenic a squad connected everything.

E!: Hilarie, that doesn't enactment for a batch of people!
HBM: I know!

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E!: Has moving unneurotic been the concealed condiment to that palmy relationship?
HBM: Yes, but not conscionable connected television. We had to physique a workplace together, we had to physique a candy store that we ain together. Raising a kid is simply a business, you person to marque agreements. And so, you squad up connected smaller things truthful that these bigger things wherever you're bringing successful crews, you're bringing successful much variables, you've already practiced. We person practiced, practiced, practiced for 13 years present and we consciousness truly bully with the projects that we person connected our slate. We've got a clump of truly breathtaking worldly that's coming retired adjacent twelvemonth arsenic well.

E!: Speaking of breathtaking collaborations—your Drama Queens podcast. You, Sophia Bush and Bethany Joy Lenz have truly gotten fans excited astir however adjacent you inactive are. What is that enslaved like?
HBM:
 We're sisters, we each grew up together. There is nary 1 other connected the satellite that understands what that acquisition was like. There's conscionable a enslaved determination that we consciousness really, truly fortunate we've been capable to maintain. And I deliberation if you look astatine a batch of casts from long-running shows, that's not ever the case. We cognize however peculiar what we person is.

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E!: What would you accidental you've learned from them?
HBM: I grew up successful a abstraction with tons of brothers and a subject family, and being brushed was thing that was looked down on. And I person learned rather a spot of softness from my household members connected One Tree Hill. There's a batch of sincerity and kindness there, and they let maine to enactment immoderate walls down. 

E!: Do you inactive footwear astir the reboot thought oregon is that doorway wholly closed?
HBM: We similar moving unneurotic successful immoderate capacity. I've already worked with truthful galore of the formed members successful Christmas movies that I've produced. Any clip that we get to beryllium together, we're open-minded to that. 

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E!: What would you accidental is your fondest representation from moving connected specified a classical teen show?
HBM: I get teary-eyed erstwhile I spot the River Court scenes that we're each successful due to the fact that those nights were magic. They were awful—they were either really, truly acold oregon really, truly blistery and truly damp and it was always, like, six successful the morning. And erstwhile you spell done the trenches with a radical of people, you person a consciousness of wit astir it. It was similar having slumber parties. And we were specified naughty kids too, you know? We're similar "Who wants to instrumentality shots successful my trailer?" 

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E!: How would you accidental being connected One Tree Hill taught you to go this concern savvy woman?
HBM: It was my acquisition astatine MTV that taught maine that due to the fact that at 18 years old, they pulled maine up disconnected the thoroughfare and I precise rapidly had to larn however to bash unrecorded tv and deliberation connected my feet. I sat down with the vice president of MTV and said "I'd similar my ain show. I'd similar a yearly salary. I'd similar each these things," and I didn't deliberation thing of it arsenic a 19-year-old. I bent retired with these guys present that I'm 40 and they tease maine astir it. They're similar "Hilarie, we've ne'er seen a teen locomotion into a country and say, 'Give maine my money.'" But, to their credit, they said yes and they made definite I felt confident.

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E!: Now you're balancing truthful much. What is an indispensable measurement successful your regular daily that you request to have a palmy day?
HBM: You person to person a radical chat with your girlfriends to bitch astir your failures due to the fact that I messiness up truthful galore times successful the people of immoderate day—whether it's with my kids oregon with nutrient oregon with my occupation oregon whatever. Finding the amusive successful your nonaccomplishment is truthful captious due to the fact that you're going to bash it, truthful conscionable find your squad that thinks it's arsenic comic arsenic you do.

E!: What bash radical not spot that's precise important to your success?
HBM: The crying! You person to consciousness each the things. You person to consciousness overwhelmed due to the fact that the equilibrium of "I had to instrumentality my girl to get vaccination shots yesterday, and my lad is successful seventh people and we're trying to fig retired his schedule" and each those things. The equilibrium is hard and you person to fto yourself cry. And those are the things we don't station online.

E!: Best concern proposal you've received?
HBM: My hubby was the archetypal idiosyncratic that was like, "Say no." And it has fixed maine truthful overmuch state and besides opened the doors for maine to bash the things that I truly wanted to accidental yes to.

E!: Confidence, bash you person it, oregon is it thing that you conflict with?
HBM: I americium assured for antithetic reasons astatine this constituent successful my life. But I would accidental becoming a parent and becoming a concern proprietor person been truly important milestones successful my life.

E!: How hard is it for you to juggle motherhood and being a badass pistillate astatine the aforesaid time?
HBM: My kids are truthful awesome. My lad watches each occurrence of our show, he's truthful invested successful justice. When you see your kids successful what you're doing, it doesn't consciousness similar arsenic large of a hurdle. They privation to cognize that what you're passionate astir is thing you privation to stock with them.

E!: What is the proudest infinitesimal successful your vocation frankincense far?
HBM: Being a cheerleader past twelvemonth for Devonia Inman. Devonia Inman was the precise archetypal lawsuit we covered connected It Couldn't Happen Here. The Georgia Innocence Project did an outstanding occupation of pushing for an exoneration for him, and our amusement conscionable happened to aerial close earlier the authorities was making their determination connected whether to prosecute him again oregon fto him go. Right earlier Christmas, they fto him spell location to his parents and I cried truthful hard. I could not person been happier. There's that phrase, like, if you could conscionable escaped 1 guiltless person...and our amusement helped close retired of the gate. If we could recreate that magic, there's conscionable thing similar that.

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