How Jill Duggar's Approach to Parenting Differs From Her Famous Family

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Jill Duggar Dillard to Release Memoir Detailing "Painful" Reality TV Journey

Jill Duggar has said that she didn't privation TV cameras in the delivery country erstwhile she gave commencement to her archetypal kid successful 2015.

But a compromise was reached: She and hubby Derick Dillard agreed to grounds immoderate video connected their own, truthful that TLC's Counting On could inactive diagnostic the milestone when the 19 Kids and Counting spin-off debuted later that year.

"They inactive got the footage," Jill noted ruefully successful the caller Amazon Prime docuseries Shiny Happy People: Duggar Family Secrets.

Counting On lasted until 2021, but she near the bid successful 2017, done with living—as she has described it—under her father Jim Bob Duggar's managerial thumb contempt having a increasing household of her own.

"Our power to take what jobs we were allowed to judge and adjacent wherever we were allowed to unrecorded was taken distant from us," Jill told People in 2020, astir the clip she and Derick started to speak retired astir the circumstances that prompted their estrangement from astir of Jill's sprawling family.

The couple have relocated from their native Arkansas to Oklahoma, wherever Derick—who was sworn successful arsenic an lawyer past year—was hired arsenic a prosecutor. Jill relayed connected the household website that they bought a location successful Siloam Springs, adjacent the borderline betwixt the 2 states.

And their sons Israel, 8, Samuel, 6, and 12-month-old Frederick—while adorable presences connected Instagram—are getting to turn up successful comparative privateness compared to the increasingly glaring spotlight thrust upon Jill and her siblings, most of whom didn't person overmuch say successful the matter.

Jill and Derick, however, are having a infinitesimal of their choosing: In summation to being the only members of Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar's contiguous household to enactment in Duggar Family Secrets (which the parents slammed erstwhile it came out arsenic coating "so overmuch and truthful galore successful a derogatory and sensationalized way"), they've written a memoir, Counting the Cost.

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"Thanks to time, tears, truth, and therapy, God has begun to heal our wounds into scars," they some wrote connected Instagram May 31 successful announcing their forthcoming book. "Though we would person ne'er chosen this path, and it has outgo america dearly, we privation to usage our dependable to amusement others that determination is anticipation beyond the pain."

Originally scheduled to beryllium released next January, it's now owed retired Sept. 12 acknowledgment to fashionable demand.

So this summer, Jill, 32, and Derick, 34, may person to steel themselves for what we tin lone conjecture volition beryllium a immense effect to what they enactment retired there, if the involvement in Jinger Duggar Vuolo's book Becoming Free Indeed is immoderate indication, not to notation the thousands of comments that heap up each clip the mates station an update.

But successful the meantime...

Frozen yogurt! Gardening! Birthdays! Date nights! In different words, the accustomed joys of mundane beingness arsenic engaged parents of three.

Anyone who's been keeping up with Jill and Derick since they tied the knot successful 2014 (let unsocial checking successful with the Duggars since they made their TLC debut successful 2004) knows that they haven't led a life escaped of public controversy, but nowadays they radiate the vibes of your mean mates that sometimes consciousness similar baring their souls to the satellite and sometimes conscionable consciousness similar going to the strawberry festival.

Jill volition occasionally solicit opinions connected societal media (talk astir heavy skin), specified arsenic erstwhile she posted a pic successful January of Israel penning (in cursive!) connected the model with erasable marker, explaining, "We similar to effort and marque learning amusive erstwhile we can!...We constitute connected the windows with adust erase markers sometimes to reenforce concepts! Tell maine immoderate different ways you marque learning fun."

There whitethorn person been immoderate suggestions but archetypal you had to scroll done each the laments that she was homeschooling alternatively of sending the kids to nationalist schoolhouse (where Israel went for kindergarten and first grade) oregon adjacent a backstage spiritual institution. Followed by the comments that possibly helium was in schoolhouse and this was conscionable immoderate at-home learning time.

Jill and her siblings were homeschooled, arsenic dictated by the religion her parents belonged to, and she has rejected the fundamentalist teachings that governed their upbringing (as has Jinger, who elaborate cutting ties and uncovering her ain attack to religion successful her memoir).

In March, Jill took the older boys to watch their dada successful enactment successful court (unclear however agelong they were capable to beryllium there), followed by a travel to the parkland for them and buying for her. And astatine 8, Israel was deemed aged capable to try his manus astatine making dinner (under adjacent motherly supervision) and an impressively edible chickenhearted tortilla crockery was the result.

They've besides had a spate of celebrations lately, including all of their birthdays betwixt Derick's on March 9 and Samuel's connected July 8 (Freddy turned 1 conscionable the time before), and the couple's wedding day was June 21.

"Life with you is fun!" Derick captioned a photograph of his woman cuddling a rabbit for her 32nd connected May 17. "I'm thankful each time for you, and I emotion you to the satellite and back! P.S. One of these years I'll retrieve to get you 3 bunnies named Nibbles, Fluffy, and Edna for your birthday, similar you've ever wanted ;)"

Jim Bob played matchmaker for the mates successful 2013—two years aft they archetypal met erstwhile Derick was among a radical of carolers who came to the Duggars' doorway that Christmas—but their existent transportation grew implicit months of Skyping and emailing portion Derick was connected a two-year ngo successful Nepal.

When Jill (and her father) went to Nepal to visit, that was it.

In her anniversary post to Derick, Jill called him the antheral of her dreams and "bestie forever."

"And acknowledgment for making my time this greeting by reminding maine it was our day (I astir forgot!)," she continued, "and bringing maine java successful bed! You are legit the champion antheral connected the planet!!" (He besides cooked meal connected Valentine's Day, for the record.)

She besides paid tribute to Derick connected Father's Day, writing, "I emotion watching you begetter our boys! They don't adjacent cognize however blessed they are yet! Thanks for being my bff, my top advocator and enactment done heavy and thin….and for loving maine and the boys a small much than you emotion @wafflehouseofficial haha." (The descent amusement included a photograph of her hubby effecting a Superman airs successful beforehand of said Waffle House portion wearing each sorts of merch.)

And successful what could beryllium considered a astonishing shout-out considering the drama of the preceding fewer months (or the past 20 years), Jill added, "Also blessed Father's Day to my dada @duggarfam emotion you truthful overmuch and anticipation you had a beauteous day!"

For the astir part, though, her attraction and affections are directed astatine her ain brood, and their summertime amusive has included excavation clip (the kids' swim acquisition achievements are a taxable connected Mom's Insta), trips to the section nationalist room and a caller plaything done Fayetteville, Ark., wherever soft-serve vanilla in a waffle cone from Braum's was a large nostalgic highlight.

"Anyone other feeling the brainsick summertime 'schedule'?" Jill captioned a June 30 pic of her loaded-up stroller. "What are your days looking similar & what are your favourite hacks to assistance support things flowing?"

Believe it oregon not, a batch of moms weighed successful with adjuvant commentary. Which should assistance support the calm earlier the expected tempest when Counting the Cost puts Jill and Derick squarely back successful the spotlight travel September.

And scroll connected for much of Jill and Derick's sweetest household moments:

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Getting successful the Holiday Spirit

The Dillards' family Christmas photograph successful 2019 featured Jill Duggar and Derick Dillard with their sons Israel, past 4, and Samuel, past 2.

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Spooky Season

Derick took a interruption from his instrumentality studies successful bid to get in "some household clip astatine the pumpkin patch" before Halloween, helium wrote connected Instagram successful 2020.

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Holly Jolly

They gave a glimpse into their Christmas decor successful December 2020.

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Family Vacay

The brace took a household abrogation to Seaside, Ore. successful August 2021, with Derick captioning this photo, "Glad to person immoderate clip to get distant from immoderate of the much stressful things of beingness lately!"

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4th of July

The Dillards celebrated Independence Day connected July 4, 2021.

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All Hands connected Deck

Derick brought his sons to work, writing, "Just different time of Clinic enactment with my instrumentality partners."

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Rocking Out

The mates enjoyed a bluegrass and barbecue festival—not to mention a funnel barroom treat—at Silver Dollar City taxable parkland successful Missouri successful May 2022 while expecting their 3rd son.

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Reading Lesson

Jill and lad Samuel attended story clip astatine the section room successful December 2021.

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Baby No. 3

They announced the accomplishment of Frederick Michael Dillard successful July 2022.

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Graduating to Big Brothers

Jill captioned her sons' photograph shoot, "We are each successful emotion with our newest small lad successful the tribe!"

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Baby Snuggles

"Though the days are agelong sometimes, I cognize the years are short," Jill wrote alongside this photo with her baby Freddy successful November 2022. "I cherish these moments holding my small ones & I commune God volition assistance maine to beryllium the mama they request maine to be."

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Bonding Time With the Newborn

Derick spent immoderate prime clip with lad Freddy, who was conscionable 4 weeks successful the pic.

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"Papa's Home"

Jill shared the saccharine photograph successful December 2022. "My world!" she wrote. "And @derickdillard is everybody's fave Love you babe."

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Little Chef

Jill celebrated her lad Israel's 8th day successful April 2023. 

"I can't judge he's already 8 years aged and doing 'big boy' things!" the TLC prima shared. "Last nighttime I asked him if helium wanted to effort his manus astatine making meal for the full household and people helium chose his favorite, which has precocious travel to beryllium known successful our location arsenic 'Israel's Favorite Soup.'"

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A Bunny for Her Birthday

Derick wished his woman a happy 32nd day successful May 2023. "Life with you is fun! I'm thankful each time for you, and I emotion you to the satellite and back!" the lawyer said. "P.S. One of these years I'll retrieve to get you 3 bunnies named Nibbles, Fluffy, and Edna for your birthday, similar you've ever wanted." 

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