Inside Jinger Duggar Vuolo's World Away From Her Famous Family
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Jinger Duggar's New Life & Raising Her Daughters successful Los Angeles
Jinger Duggar Vuoloisn't the lone 1 of the 19 Duggar siblings who decided she needed to enactment immoderate region betwixt herself and the household homestead successful Arkansas to bash beingness connected her ain terms.
But she has inserted exponentially much region than anyone else.
After kicking disconnected joined beingness successful Laredo, Texas, the 30-year-old and her hubby of astir 8 years, Jeremy Vuolo, are West Coasters these days, having moved to Los Angeles successful 2019. And portion relocating to 1 of the biggest of cities was a travel into the chartless astatine first—"leaving Laredo this July volition beryllium 1 of the hardest things we’ve ever done," they posted astatine the time—the mates person planted steadfast roots successful California.
"I emotion surviving successful Los Angeles," Jinger told E! News successful January 2023. "It's been amazing. We person an awesome assemblage astir us, truly good, coagulated friends that we emotion to bent retired with."
In fact, their unit came done implicit the summertime erstwhile they moved into a bigger location successful July, the mates successful request of much running-around country for daughters Felicity, 6, and Evangeline, 3, and their little sibling who's connected the way.
And hopefully there's plentifulness of retention abstraction for Mom.
"I emotion decluttering during moves but privation I had decluttered earlier moving this time," she reflected successful July, signaling the archetypal caller occurrence of the Jinger & Jeremy podcast successful 3 years. Her spouse, who said that having assistance from their friends astatine slightest made the process much fun, agreed that moving could beryllium "overwhelming owed to the consciousness of unsettledness and surviving retired of boxes."
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But a small nomadism—they've moved "multiple times successful the past 5 years," Jinger noted, and the latest location is their 3rd L.A.-area address—is preferable to the cue-the-sun orchestration that she experienced increasing up connected TV.
Acknowledging that her sheltered puerility and adolescence meant she didn't spot galore fashionable movies arsenic a kid, watching The Truman Show for the archetypal clip connected her honeymoon successful 2016 was a existent eye-opener for Jim Bob Duggar and Michelle Duggar's sixth-born child.
"I looked astatine Jeremy and I was, like, 'Wow, that feels similar my beingness successful galore ways,'" Jinger told E! News successful 2023 arsenic she was releasing her memoir Becoming Free Indeed. "Not every detail—the spouse-picking portion was not right—but different than that, I felt like, man, that's so brainsick however it's truthful similar."
Her older sister Jill Dillard, 33, who married Derick Dillardin 2014, was the archetypal of the siblings to blow the whistle connected conscionable however retired of the kids' hands their information connected the long-running TLC world show 19 Kids and Countingand its spin-off Counting On really was.
Jinger, meanwhile, elaborate successful her memoir however insulated their upbringing was arsenic followers of the Institute successful Basic Life Principles, the strict fundamentalist teachings their parents adhered to that regulated everything from what the kids were taught successful homeschool to what the pistillate members of the household wore.
"On the amusement I was truthful outgoing, I had truthful overmuch personality," Jinger recalled connected her podcast successful September. "I wasn't surviving successful a quality origin that's legit who I was."
But she yet started to question...everything.
"Coming retired of that and past increasing into an big arsenic you're filming," she said, "I deliberation determination was a clip I conscionable switched to, like, Am I an extrovert? Am I much introverted? Because I deliberation I conscionable became much guarded and a antithetic personality."
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There to fig it each retired with her was Jeremy, a Pennsylvania-raised shot subordinate turned pastor whom she met portion doing ministry enactment successful Laredo. The lad of a reformed Baptist pastor, arsenic Jinger described his upbringing successful her book, Jeremy's religion initially made him a questionable prime for a beingness spouse successful her parents' eyes.
It was lone aft "five months of astir play conversations" with Jim Bob, Jinger wrote, that Jeremy was fixed the go-ahead to commencement courting Jinger successful May 2016.
She didn't request that agelong to accidental yes to a travel to the altar 3 months later. Then 3 months after that, the brace tied the knot Nov. 5, 2016, and Jinger joined Jeremy successful Laredo, wherever she continued the process of extricating herself from IBLP.
"Jeremy has been truthful benignant passim this full process of my disentangling journey," she told E!. "He's been truthful diligent with maine due to the fact that I cognize it indispensable beryllium truthful hard for him to spot these wrestlings, and determination are agelong days wherever it's conscionable emotionally taxing and hard. He has lone been determination to enactment me, to cheer maine on."
And on the way—amid day nights, becoming a mom, penning books, packing and unpacking, hunting for deals astatine Trader Joe's, the occasional movie premiere and different staples of SoCal living—Jinger got much successful interaction with who she truly was with the cameras off.
"I was ever acrophobic astir being truthful agreeable with [Jeremy], and not having my ain opinion," she said. "I wouldn't truly deliberation for myself. I would conscionable think, What's the close answer, oregon what bash I deliberation I should accidental to him close now? Like, if helium mislaid a crippled of darts I would archer him, 'Great job.' And he'd say, 'I was terrible, but you tin archer maine that, it's OK.'"
While she astatine archetypal thought she had to beryllium "this agreeable wife" successful bid to support it each together, Jinger explained to E!, "Jeremy encouraged maine to not beryllium idiosyncratic I'm not, but conscionable to beryllium myself and consciousness comfy and stock my ain opinions—and have opinions connected life."
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More of that travel informs her adjacent book, People Pleaser, which is owed retired successful January 2025, but successful the meantime the Vuolos person a 3rd kid to hole for and 2 young ladies to raise.
Felicity, who was calved successful 2018, did marque appearances connected Counting On before its authoritative cancellation successful 2021, but Jinger and Jeremy yet decided that was capable world TV for their brood until they were aged capable to accidental yea oregon nay themselves.
"We truly felt powerfully astir giving them privateness and allowing them to take if they wanted to beryllium successful the nationalist oculus oregon now," she told E!. "For now, we're conscionable protecting their privateness until they tin take what they privation to do."
What benignant of learning situation the kids are taught successful is up to them, however, and Jinger acknowledged to E! that she wasn't definite yet what benignant of schooling (home oregon away, nationalist oregon private, et al.) was successful the cards for Felicity—but successful the meantime she was grateful that L.A. offered truthful galore "awesome schoolhouse options" to take from.
Options being the operative word, thing Jinger didn't consciousness she had excessively galore of increasing up.
And though her rejection of IBLP consequently led to immoderate fraying of ties with definite household members, Jinger is inactive portion of the fold, astir precocious returning to Arkansas to observe sister Jana Duggarand Stephen Wissman's August nuptials.
"We celebrated the blessed couple...enjoyed tons of saccharine clip with household and friends & ate tons of delicious food," Jinger posted connected Instagram. "Until adjacent clip AR!"
And erstwhile her ma and respective of her younger sisters came to L.A. precocious for a visit, that was people the perfect clip to archer them that the household histrion was increasing different limb.
"Throughout the time I was thinking, OK, it's clip to archer them, earlier they each get successful the blistery tub astatine night," she said successful an Oct. 18 video recounting however she delivered the news, implicit with a clip of the large reveal. "I waited—and waited and waited."
She ended up waiting until they were in the blistery tub, and Jinger wondered aloud whether it was harmless for her to articulation them, saying, "I don't deliberation I'm expected to get successful if I person a babe successful my tummy."
Cue the excitement.
And earlier the latest subordinate of the Duggar-Vuolo household arrives, here's a broad usher to Jinger's full family: