Inside Octomom Nadya Suleman's World as a Mom of 14 Kids

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Octomom Nadya Suleman Becomes Grandmother After Her Son Welcomes First Child

Nadya Suleman didn't mean to person eight more children, bringing her expansive full to 14.

But aft different circular of successful vitro fertilization resulted successful the azygous parent having the world's archetypal acceptable of surviving octuplets connected Jan. 26, 2009—birthing the nickname "Octomom" successful the process—the mentality successful her household had to beryllium the much the merrier.

In summation to present 15-year-old octuplets Noah, Maliyah, Isaiah, Nariyah, Makai, Josiah, Jeremiah and Jonah, she's the parent of Elijah, 23, Amerah, 22, Joshua, 21, Aidan, 18, and 17-year-old twins Caleb and Calyssa. All of her children were conceived done IVF.

And not lone are the occurrence 8 successful precocious school, but her household histrion has besides sprouted a caller branch: Joshua became a dada connected Aug. 30.

"Thank you my lad and my beauteous girl successful instrumentality for giving america this beauteous gift!" the 49-year-old grandma (who started going by Natalie Suleman years ago) posted Sept. 22, captioning a photograph of an infant's ft nether a pinkish blanket. "We are truthful blessed that she is simply a caller summation to our family! Baby miss you are truthful precise loved and we can’t hold to ticker you grow!!"

While she inactive includes "octoMOM" successful her Instagram bio, her household photos boast each the hallmarks of normalcy—birthdays, Christmas, Mother's Day, archetypal time of school, girls' nighttime out, gym sessions, etc.—which is simply a striking opposition from her proverbial 15 minutes arsenic a viral phenomenon. And with it, becoming the inevitable people of scorn and scrutiny.

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"I'm not a celebrity," she told Oprah Winfrey successful 2010 aft penning to the speech amusement big to petition an quality to stock her broadside of the story. "I'm a pseudo-celebrity catapulted into this large media mess. Did I privation it? No. Was I successful denial reasoning that it wouldn't happen? Yes."

Oprah noted being skeptical earlier agreeing to interrogation the seemingly attention-hungry mom.

Rather, Nadya insisted that "14 bare mouths" were the information down her assorted endeavors, specified arsenic posing successful a bikini to amusement disconnected her postpartum value loss.

While Oprah interviewed her remotely, the Oprah cameras captured a time successful the life astatine location with her 14 kids and 3 daytime nannies.

She spent astir $1,000 a week connected groceries, Oprah noted successful the 2010 segment, which showed Nadya's 8 12-month-olds eating astatine a peculiar array with built-in high-chair seating. (In a "typical week," they were going done 21 dozen eggs and 20 gallons of milk.) 

"It's a immense family," Nadya acknowledged, adding with a laugh, "a ridiculously immense family."

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She said determination were "so galore reasons" wherefore she didn't halt astatine having six kids, noting that "perhaps selfishness" and "trying to compensate for being an lone child" factored into her determination to support going.

Her doctor—the aforesaid 1 who did each of her erstwhile IVF treatments—implanted her with six embryos that had been near implicit from the batch that produced her twins, past implanted different six when, according to Nadya, helium told her the archetypal six didn't take.

"I possibly wrongfully looked extracurricular of myself," she told Oprah, "when I should person been filling that successful from within." She coveted connection, she continued, and that "felt safer with children than with a important other, much predictable." (She joined Marcos Gutierrez successful 1996 and they separated successful 2000. "They are not my kids," Marcos, who filed for divorcement successful 2006, told Inside Edition after the octuplets were born, "but I privation her the best." He said his ex was "a large idiosyncratic with a large heart.")

She intelligibly didn't person overmuch clip for herself, but she told Oprah she kept it unneurotic by "taking heavy breaths passim the time and staying connected to my kids."

After relying connected authorities assistance, she had a stint arsenic an exotic dancer and made an big film, Octomom Home Alone winning Best Celebrity Video astatine the 2012 AVN Awards. But she stuck by her vow to ne'er prima successful a world amusement with her children. "I afloat exploited and dehumanized myself with the porn and the stripping," she told DailyMail.com successful 2016, but that was to debar putting her kids "in beforehand of the camera."

Once the rapt fascination with her beingness choices tapered off, however, Nadya settled into not precisely obscurity, but astatine slightest into the regular 24/7 concern of looking aft 14 children.

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"Everyone thinks I had each these donations and assistance but I didn't," she told DailyMail.com. "I did everything connected my ain and paid everything retired of my ain pouch truthful I was Octomom for 4 years. The past 2 years of it were truthful dark. I descended down a precise acheronian and destructive path."

She'd admittedly had immoderate cosmetic procedures, "but not fractional of what the media person said I had," she explained. "I had a bosom augmentation aft breastfeeding 3 kids, which I paid for myself arsenic I was working. I had a tummy tuck aft the octuplets aft a media outlet promised maine $100,000 to airs nude."

She maintained that, different than articulator injections successful 2008 that "looked horrible," but which she had done again successful 2009 due to the fact that a media outlet paid her to bash it, she had not had enactment done connected her face.

Through it all, she "stayed strong" for the children, she continued: "My kids cognize what I did arsenic Octomom, I archer them the truth. I've told them I've done immoderate precise atrocious and shameful things and they say, 'It's okay, Mom, we emotion you anyhow and we'll ever emotion you."

She added, "They cognize I did it for them. We don't person kid conversations, we person heavy and intelligence conversations astir each of this. They are truthful astute and truthful aware."

The Fullerton, Calif., autochthonal had a bachelor's grade successful kid improvement and she was moving by past arsenic a household counselor.

Her emblematic time started astatine 5 a.m. and determination were 4 stops connected her greeting schoolhouse run. Then she worked, did day pickup, made dinner, bathed the younger kids successful pairs and was successful furniture astatine astir midnight. A two-hour nap erstwhile a week was her large indulgence.

She went vegan successful 2016 and had her kids follow the manner arsenic well, penning connected Instagram that December that she chose to "raise them AWARE, and astir of each compassionate toward each living, sentient beings." (She nary longer recognizes it arsenic Thanksgiving, but a look astatine her Native American Heritage Day dinner successful 2023, courtesy of "head chefs Jonah, Nariyah, Noah, and Jeremiah," showed a meat-free table.)

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She subsequently claimed she ne'er got sick, crediting cleanable eating and exercise. She whitethorn person had a raspy voice, but, arsenic she told the New York Times in 2018, "I deliberation it's from being large and yelling for what feels similar the past 18 years. I person 14 children!”

Nadya had shared erstwhile she was archetypal successful the nationalist oculus that Aidan was autistic, but successful August 2019 she divulged that he required full-time care.

He is "non-verbal, requires feeding, changing...bathing, and one-to-one supervision, arsenic helium has nary information consciousness and would locomotion aimlessly into traffic," she wrote connected Instagram. "I, his mother, am, and ever person been, his ONLY attraction provider. This 'job' is my beingness (other than caring for 13 different children singlehandedly). My children are my LIFE."

More precocious she shared that fittingness had go a household affair.

"I've been asked for years however I enactment physically beardown and steadfast (and mentally sane), successful spite of my stressful, engaged manner with specified a large family," she wrote connected Instagram successful June 2023. "Lifting weights has been my method of constructively channeling stress, consistently, for implicit 30 years.

To easiness chronic backmost symptom and different carnal issues related to her pregnancies, she tried to spot bid 3 to 4 days a week and bash an hr of cardio connected a stationary motorcycle 4 to 5 days a week.

"Fortunately, my kids person adopted the aforesaid progressive lifestyle," she noted. "My oldest 3 value train, acold heavier than I, and much frequently."

Elijah rapidly surpassed her successful the gym, she added proudly, and had since encouraged her "to assistance heavier, utilizing due technique, which has improved my spot and performance."

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Meanwhile, she respects her older kids' wishes erstwhile they inquire her to not station their pics, noting erstwhile she shared a changeable of the octuplets headed disconnected to their archetypal time of eighth people that the others had requested she keep their respective archetypal days wrong the family.

But conscionable similar immoderate mom—of one, two, 3 oregon 14—she loves to people milestones with saccharine photos, adjacent if conscionable throwbacks from erstwhile the kids were little.

For Elijah's 21st day successful May 2022, she called her eldest child "one of the astir humble, genuine, kind, and loving quality beings" she knew.

Marking Amerah's 20th successful July 2022, she wrote, "It feels similar yesterday you would play formal up arsenic a princess, and present you person grown up to beryllium a queen. I emotion you much than words tin explicit and enactment you successful everything you do. You are smart, strong, genuine, loving, compassionate, and not lone my daughter, but my closest friend."

And for Caleb and Calyssa's 16th day successful October 2022, she complimented her lad connected increasing into "a loving, caring, highly intelligent, comedic, speedy witted, perceptive, and devoted young man," portion his duplicate sister was "a kind, loving, compassionate (towards each surviving things), intelligent, beauteous young lady," arsenic good arsenic a "talented writer and artist."

Meanwhile, successful celebrating Joshua's 21st connected Aug. 20, she gushed astir him being "smart, funny, hard working, loyal, humble, and present a devoted hubby and soon to beryllium father."

And, she quipped, "Maybe 1 time you’ll let maine to really stock an updated picture."

But having 14 children has made for an endless slew of Kodak moments nonetheless, truthful support speechmaking to spot much of their saccharine household photos:

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Back to the Beginning

Throwing it backmost to erstwhile her octuplets wherever newborns and her six older children were capable to beryllium inactive for astir 8 seconds.

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Uniform Cuteness

Gap advertisement successful the heyday of khakis oregon a flashback to Christmas 2012?

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We've Got Each Other

Mom marked twins Caleb and Calyssa's 16th day successful 2023 with this adorable throwback pic.

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Santa's Helpers

Getting 8 children to enactment up and grin for a pic sounds similar a Christmas occurrence to us.

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Fur Baby Bonding

The Sulemans are a feline family, truthful Maliyah took the accidental to bash immoderate dog-sitting.

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Man of the House

Nadya snuck a uncommon caller pic of eldest lad Elijah onto her provender successful grant of his 21st birthday successful 2022.

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It's a Zoo successful Here!

Sometimes having a ample household tin truly consciousness similar moving a zoo, arsenic Nadya reminded america successful wishing Noah, Maliyah, Isaiah, Nariyah, Jeremiah, Jonah, Josiah and Makai a happy 12th birthday.

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Look What I Made

Showing disconnected a feline and crafts connected the couch.

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Young Queen

Nadya's eldest girl Amerah got her 21st day representation each to herself.

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Compliments to the Chefs

Jonah, Nariyah, Noah and Jeremiah were successful complaint of the family's vegan feast connected Native American Heritage Day successful 2023.

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Girls Night Out

Mom took Amerah and Calyssa out for ramen (vegan, of course) successful August 2023.

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When the Cats Are Bigger Than the Kids...

The household loves their fur babies too.

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Looking Snazzy

Eight was capable for this household photograph successful March 2022.

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Cobra Kai Forever

Joshua, sporting the impermanent look tat, and large member Eli were astir to instrumentality formation successful this throwback pic their ma shared.

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Twinning!

Maliyah and Nariyah were a coordinated sister act.

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Brotherly Love

Noah and Jonah got acceptable to excavation in.

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Every Day is Mother's Day

Mother's Day is ne'er lonely for Nadya, present celebrating with her octuplets and their large sister Amerah successful 2022.

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Tie-Dyed For

In lieu of 48 candles, the kids brought balloons for their mom's birthday.

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14 and Counting

The Suleman octuplets enjoyed baked goods connected their 14th birthday.

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Surrounded by Love

While her kids smiled for the camera, Mom snuck successful a privation connected her 49th day successful 2024.

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