Queen Elizabeth II and Sophie, Countess of Wessex: The Closest Royal Friendship You Didn't Know About

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It's communal cognition by present that 1992 wasn't a banner twelvemonth for Britain's royal family.

Dubbed an annus horribilis by Queen Elizabeth II herself, those scandal-plagued 12 months bore witnesser to, not lone a occurrence astatine Windsor Castle, but besides the extremity of each 3 of her joined children's marriages. Those unions had imploded agelong before, but it was successful 1992 that Princess Anne finalized her divorce from Mark Phillips (and remarried that aforesaid year), while Prince Andrew and Sarah, Duchess of York and now-King Charles III and Princess Diana announced their separations (and some couples yet divorced).

That would beryllium a batch for immoderate family, fto unsocial 1 of the astir disposable dynasties successful the world.

Only Prince Edward managed to not get divorced successful 1992, but that's due to the fact that helium wasn't joined yet.

In fact, Edward, the youngest of the queen and Prince Philip's 4 children, wasn't adjacent dating his aboriginal wife, Sophie Rhys-Jones, yet.

A Cambridge postgraduate and Royal Marine grooming dropout, Edward wildly diverged from the way trod by his begetter and brothers by becoming a accumulation adjunct astatine Andrew Lloyd Webber's Really Useful Theater Company successful the 1980s and past forming his ain amusement company, Ardent Productions, successful 1993.

That's besides the twelvemonth helium reunited with Rhys-Jones, a nationalist relations enforcement whom helium archetypal crossed paths with successful 1987—when helium was dating her friend. (Not an uncommon motorboat pad for aboriginal romance successful his family: Charles archetypal dated Diana's older sister, present Lady Sarah McCorquodale, portion Princess Anne dated aboriginal Queen Consort Camilla's archetypal husband, Andrew Parker Bowles, successful the aboriginal 1970s.

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Sophie and Edward—by past 29 but not nether arsenic overmuch unit to settee down arsenic his eldest member Charles had been arsenic helium approached 30—saw each different astatine a Real Tennis foundation lawsuit successful 1993 and started dating.

As the babe of the household and so acold the slightest scandalous of the bunch, Edward enjoyed a definite magnitude of privacy, but helium knew that erstwhile it comes to royal romance each bets are off. When helium called Sophie astatine enactment helium would accidental it was "Richard" phoning, and they took pains to debar photographers portion venturing retired together. The proudly shameless News of the World, which closed aft a period successful 2011 aft the work was caught up successful a hacking scandal, was the archetypal to springiness their narration front-page attraction successful December 1993.

But in part due to the fact that helium had conscionable watched each 3 of his siblings' marriages not enactment retired successful spectacular fashion, Edward was successful nary unreserved to instrumentality the adjacent step. According to biographer Ingrid Seward's 1995 book Prince Edward, "Like all couples, determination were moments erstwhile the effort of adjusting led to rows and disagreements and, successful the summertime of 1994, [he and Sophie] came precariously adjacent to parting."

Meanwhile, Sophie started her ain PR steadfast successful 1996 and started walking the locomotion of a aboriginal subordinate of the royal family, the section papers enjoying her normal-girl inheritance (grew up successful Kent successful a four-bedroom 17th-century farmhouse, higher acquisition astatine West Kent College, descendant of King Henry IV, 1399-1413) and speculating perpetually astir the authorities of their relationship.

Edward continued to bide his time, waiting until the extremity of 1998 to popular the question. His connection included a ringing with a two-carat oval diamond, flanked by 2 heart-shaped gemstones and acceptable successful 18-carat achromatic gold, by royal jeweler Asprey and Garrard.

Of course, earlier helium proposed, Edward sought the OK from his mother, the queen's support being No. 1 connected the database of to-dos earlier thing could beryllium made official.

Happily for each involved, the queen liked her aboriginal daughter-in-law rather a bit.

While 1992 whitethorn person seemed similar a low, Diana's decease successful 1997 shook the full instauration of the royal family. The calamity near then-15-year-old Prince William and 12-year-old Prince Harry without a parent and the usually pitch-perfect queen grappling with however to grieve successful public after decades of getting utilized to doing nary specified thing—including erstwhile her father, King George VI, died successful 1952 and she ascended to the throne astatine 25.

With Diana's millions of fans clamoring for much emotion from the royal family, the queen met them arsenic acold arsenic her presumption allowed, delivering a touching nationalist code connected Sept. 5, 5 days aft the princess' fatal accident.

"We person each been trying successful our antithetic ways to cope," the monarch said. "It is not casual to explicit a consciousness of loss, since the archetypal daze is often succeeded by a substance of different feelings—disbelief, incomprehension, choler and interest for those who remain. We person each felt those emotions successful these past fewer days. So what I accidental to you now, arsenic your queen and arsenic a grandmother, I accidental from my heart."

It's also fathomable that Edward whitethorn not person wanted to suggest to Sophie straight successful the aftermath of 1 of the astir shocking deaths of a nationalist fig successful caller representation (or, 25 years later, ever), particularly 1 that came arsenic adjacent to ripping his household isolated arsenic it did. Edward himself got connected good with Diana, but they weren't peculiarly close. But either way, possibly helium was waiting for a much tasteful clip to fastener it down with Sophie for the satellite to see.

Edward and Sophie's engagement was yet announced connected Jan. 6, 1999.

And joyful the quality was. The queen showed her enactment for her son's woman aboriginal on, breaking her ain rules by allowing Sophie enactment overnight astatine Buckingham Palace successful the royal apartments—where each of her kids maintained a residence—before she and Edward were married.

Asked during their archetypal associated interrogation aft their engagement however she felt astir joining the royal family, Sophie told the BBC, "It is somewhat nerve-racking successful galore ways. But I americium acceptable for it present and I americium afloat alert of the responsibilities."

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The mates tied the knot connected June 19, 1999, successful a first-time-for-everything evening ceremonial (as opposed to the midday nuptials that punctual each those greeting coats and brightly colored fascinators—in fact, the mates requested nary hats, to stress the more "casual" vibe they were going for) astatine St. George's Chapel astatine Windsor Castle. Sophie wore a gown by Samantha Shaw and a tiara from the queen's backstage collection.

Before they walked down the aisle, the queen gave Edward the rubric of Earl of Wessex, making Sophie the Countess of Wessex. (Sarah Sienesi, Sophie's flatmate from her archetypal days starting retired successful PR, became her lady-in-waiting.)

Roughly 200 cardinal radical caught astatine slightest immoderate of the ceremonial connected TV, but the bride and groom wanted an apolitical affair, truthful luminaries specified arsenic Prime Minister Tony Blair were not connected the impermanent list. The at-home assemblage was successful for a spot of a letdown, anyway, due to the fact that the Wessexes did not spell successful for the nationalist buss connected the steps of the chapel aft their I-dos—though that gesture, nevertheless sweet, isn't needfully a harbinger of happiness.

The queen hosted their wedding reception astatine Windsor Castle that evening.

Heartbreak befell the mates erstwhile Sophie had an ectopic gestation successful 2001 and needed country to region the fetus, aft which she took a agelong interruption from nationalist appearances to recover, but she and Edward were determined to commencement a family. 

Their daughter, Lady Louise Windsor, was calved prematurely on Nov. 8, 2003, aft Sophie suffered a placental abruption and required an exigency C-section. The caller ma remained successful the infirmary (Frimley Park, successful Surrey) for respective weeks earlier being good capable to spell home, lone aft which did she and Edward denote their babe girl's name. Their lad James, Viscount Severn, was born connected Dec. 17, 2007, besides via C-section astatine Frimley Park Hospital.

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The queen and Sophie—who until Charles joined Camilla successful 2005 remained her lone daughter-in-law—grew ever closer, though it's not arsenic if there hasn't been any reason for the queen to invoke her stiff precocious articulator since her youngest lad yet settled down. 

In 2001, earlier her aesculapian troubles, Sophie was purportedly recorded telling an undercover newsman from News of the World (who was posing arsenic an planetary businessman) that if helium utilized her PR firm, R-JH, helium would payment due to the fact that of her prominence arsenic a subordinate of the royal family. Not precisely selling access (as Andrew's ex-wife the Duchess of York would look to do aboriginal successful 2010, though she insisted it was a misunderstanding) but a immense no-no to adjacent invoke royal connections. She besides supposedly referred to the queen arsenic "old dear" and slammed immoderate authorities figures (also a no-no for the royals to speech politics). It was subsequently reported that Sophie sent apology letters to whomever she whitethorn person offended.

Buckingham Palace stood up for her, though, denying the beingness of those letters and saying successful a statement, "The Countess of Wessex, who is trying to prosecute her ain career, is evidently susceptible to set-ups specified arsenic this."

Still, Sophie shuttered R-JH Publicity successful 2002.

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Meanwhile, Edward's Ardent Productions was ne'er a fiscal success, and was astir infamous for a 1987 contention peculiar called It's a Royal Knockout that featured Andrew, then-wife Sarah and Princess Anne competing successful carnal challenges—and which Charles smartly refused to person immoderate engagement with astatine all.

In 2001, Charles was reportedly alternatively livid erstwhile a two-man unit from his brother's institution were accused of trying to summation entree to 19-year-old Prince William astatine assemblage for a documentary—a usurpation of the guidelines Charles had acceptable successful spot for each media sum of his children portion they were astatine school.

Edward apologized to the queen and promised not to effort to marque immoderate much shows astir the family. "I tin corroborate that our energies volition beryllium enactment into the play and movie areas," Ardent chairman Malcolm Cockren stated astatine the time, per the Telegraph

With Charles being of the sentiment (presumably shared by the queen) that his member and sister-in-law needed to either get retired of backstage concern oregon retired of nationalist royalty, Edward stepped down from his moving roles astatine Ardent successful 2002. The institution itself yet closed successful 2009.

And so, successful summation to becoming parents successful 2003, Sophie and Edward dedicated themselves solely to the occupation of royalty—and elder moving royals they've remained, lone expanding their stock of the workload arsenic time went by and the queen started thinning her schedule.

In fact, the Earl and Countess of Wessex were among the archetypal successful the family to task backmost into making in-person appearances pursuing the COVID-19 lockdown, which they spent moving remotely astatine Bagshot Park. Their 56-room location successful Surrey, a wedding acquisition from the queen, is besides astir a 20-minute thrust from Windsor Castle, wherever the queen and Philip were doing their societal distancing. Sophie was besides known to beryllium volunteering astatine a adjacent nutrient bank.

The Wessexes' bureau has besides been based astatine Buckingham Palace, which contributed to Sophie's adjacent enslaved with the queen, and they stock the Royal Family societal media account.

"If Sophie wasn't there, the Queen would lone person a lady-in-waiting for those feminine chats she likes," a royal adjutant told Seward successful 2013. "The Princess Royal [Anne] is precise adjacent to her mother, but is hardly ever there, portion Sophie is astir a lot."

When the royals all went to their respective homes to ride retired the lockdown successful March 2020, Sophie recorded a video message, shot by her daughter, present 18-year-old Louise, astir services disposable those who would inevitably request them during the extended play of isolation.

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"For parents and carers, it tin beryllium a daunting clip to assistance our children and young radical done this play of uncertainty but delight don't consciousness alone," said the countess, a patron of the U.K.'s National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children's work halfway and assistance line. "Make usage of the resources retired determination and the fantastic integer communities that are sharing and supporting them. Stay harmless and reasoning of you all."

That June, arsenic the satellite was opening up, she visited the NSPCC bureau (one of her much than 70 patronages), wherever she met with workers and sat successful connected a Childline counseling shift.

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Sophie and Edward celebrated their 23rd wedding day successful June successful the aftermath of the queen's Platinum Jubilee, the past clip the monarch's sprawling household was each unneurotic earlier they reunited successful the aftermath of her decease past week.

The Wessexes were taxable to the accustomed trouble-in-paradise rumors implicit the years, but they ever had the queen's enactment (and the occasional assistance from the Palace's communications bureau erstwhile perfectly necessary), arsenic good arsenic each other's.

"Sophie has been done immoderate trying times," a person told Ingrid Seward successful 2013. "Edward has ever been her enarthrosis to outcry connected and has seen her astatine her lowest ebb." Body connection adept Judi James acknowledged to the Express successful 2019 that Edward's matrimony was primitively the least-expected to last, but...

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"A palmy PR with her ain firm, [Sophie] integrated into the royal household successful a precise unfussy mode and was a cleanable compliment for her husband's trait of seemingly taking himself a small excessively seriously," James observed.

And it was surely bully to beryllium adjacent with one's mother-in-law, especially aft Sophie's ain parent died successful 2005.

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"Sophie archetypal of each respects her arsenic the Queen, past arsenic a mother-in-law," the monarch's relative Elizabeth Anson told Elizabeth the Queen author Sally Bedell Smith, "but she besides understands that she is simply a quality being, and treats her that way."

Sophie and the queen were also military past buffs, and it's said they would vanish into the royal archives for hours connected end. And though she wasn't a earthy equestrian, Sophie took lessons to go an accomplished capable horseback rider to travel the queen connected the monarch's beloved rides astir the grounds of Balmoral oregon Windsor erstwhile invited.

Enjoying the queen's relationship each these years has besides helped Sophie stay assured and poised erstwhile the going got tough—or when faced with the precise real threat of breathtaking young royals co-opting each the headlines.

Sophie "radiates happiness," Laura Benjamin, 1 of the countess' go-to designers, told Seward. "I deliberation she enjoys looking bully and doing good."

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She besides knew however to blend in, often enjoying pridefulness of spot adjacent to the queen successful the backmost of her Rolls-Royce during rides to religion successful Windsor oregon astatine Sandringham.

Royal aides compared their narration to that of parent and daughter, and successful summation to being a confidante for years, Sophie was said to person go the queen's stone successful the aftermath of Philip's decease successful April 2021.

Marveling astatine her mother-in-law's stoicism, meanwhile, a teary-eyed Sophie told reporters after Philip died, "The queen has been amazing."

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(Originally published June 19, 2020, astatine 12 p.m. PT)

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