The Truth About Jessica Biel and Justin Timberlake's Enduring Love

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Once upon a time, the agelong presumption wasn't looking rosy for Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel.

The tabloid-magnet mates had breached up aft astir 4 years of dating, and J.T. was ruminating connected whether forever-relationships were imaginable due to the fact that radical whitethorn not beryllium the aforesaid six months later, fto unsocial 10 years later.

"We talked a small astir marriage," Timberlake told a relative and a person successful the beingness of Vanity Fair successful 2011, a fewer months after the breakup went public. "I said that I deliberation the mistake is that radical perpetrate to who that idiosyncratic is close past and not the idiosyncratic they're going to become. That's the creation of staying together, is changing together.

"When you accidental it similar that, it seems damn adjacent impossible, right?"

Presenting, Mr. and Mrs. Evolution.

The devoted pair, who share lad Silas, 7, and Phineas, 2, are celebrating 10 years of marriage—marking their day Oct. 19.

"It's amazing," Biel said connected a June 2021 episode of Dax Shepard's Armchair Expert podcast. "The conversations I'm having present with my 6-year-old are truthful cool. Like, he's a existent idiosyncratic saying the funniest worldly and he's truthful delicate and tender. It's conscionable truthful absorbing to spot that portion of it happen—and the small 1 is conscionable cute arsenic hell."

She referred to Phineas arsenic her "secret COVID baby," a motion to his July 2020 commencement that she and Timberlake did not corroborate for astir six months.

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While having kids has infinitely expanded their capableness for emotion and devotion to different quality being beyond their wildest dreams, becoming parents besides showed them the value of taking other clip to nurture their narration with each other. "You conscionable person to marque clip for day night, clip for yourself unsocial and clip with your partner," Biel told E! News successful 2018. "It has to beryllium fun!"

Moreover, she explained, "My hubby ever says, 'We can't halt dating.' I emotion that due to the fact that it's true. You person to proceed to marque the abstraction for yourself and your spouse to conscionable person amusive similar you did earlier you had kids. And not speech astir them! Keep it fresh, support it exciting. Spontaneous if astatine each possible."

And though it's not ever casual for a mates of A-listers similar them to support their privacy, these 2 person go experts astatine keeping definite things to themselves portion taking the occasional adorable infinitesimal public.

"Thankful for my guys," Biel, 40, captioned 1 of her uncommon Instagram pics of her sons, a Dec. 25 changeable of the household of 4 enjoying a stroll adjacent their home successful Montana

Marking Biel's day past year, Timberlake, 41, sang the praises of "the strongest, funniest, best, brightest and astir beauteous mom/partner/BOSS determination is. I'm fortunate to larn from you and laughter with you and observe you each day. But, contiguous we bash it with!!!! Here's to much slow-mos successful the wind, jumping into bushes to prevention our kid's toys, and timing retired leap pics perfectly..."

TimberBiel archetypal formed successful the days of 24/7 paparazzi scrutiny, which, portion that hasn't gone away, has relinquished its spot connected the accusation superhighway to societal media, wherever the celebrities themselves tin get up of the narrative, station their engagement rings and babe photos. Or, successful immoderate cases, their associated breakup statements.

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Justin and Jessica's earliest years together, arsenic told by headlines, were riddled with rumors and speculation astir wherefore oregon wherefore not they were adjacent to splitting up. Until they really did. They attempted to beryllium rather nonrecreational astir it, releasing a connection to corroborate that they had parted ways arsenic friends, but the quest for answers still ran its earthy course, with oregon without their input (and usually without).

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"I would alternatively not speech astir her, due to the fact that it's hurtful for me," Timberlake told Vanity Fair in 2011. "It's unfortunate that adjacent though you marque the effort to accidental something, which I tried connected for size, radical bash what they privation to do. I don't privation to accidental overmuch more, due to the fact that I person to support things that are beloved to me—for instance, her. She is the single-handedly astir important idiosyncratic successful my life. In my 30 years, she is the astir peculiar person, O.K.? So I support it, and until idiosyncratic shows maine what would beryllium much fulfilling astatine this point, that's what I person to do."

He said that, out of respect for his chap celebrities and what they're going through, helium didn't "look beneath anybody's waist" successful enactment astatine the supermarket, due to the fact that that's wherever the tabloids were connected display.

Before helium entered into one high-profile narration aft another, archetypal with Britney Spears and past Cameron Diaz before Biel, Timberlake acceptable out, astatine least, to beryllium tight-lipped astir his backstage life. (Rather the other of how he handled his breakup with Spears.)

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"I don't similar to remark connected my idiosyncratic beingness anymore," Justin, past 19, politely told Rolling Stone in 2000. "Everything gets blown retired of proportion. I've been successful the tabloids, and I don't bask it. If I bash determine to person a idiosyncratic narration with someone, I deliberation it's champion to support it that—personal."

He archetypal met Biel, whom Esquire named "Sexiest Woman Alive" successful 2005, astatine a astonishment enactment successful Hollywood—a tidbit helium revealed successful his memoirHindsight & All the Things I Can't See successful Front of Me. Meaning helium has chosen to share at slightest some of the behind-the-scenes details for nationalist consumption, but at his constituent wherefore not stock however their yet highly palmy emotion communicative got its existent start?

Timberlake cracked a adust joke, helium recalled, and Biel was the lone 1 who laughed. They danced to Madonna's "Lucky Star." And past disconnected she went into the night.

"It wasn't time" to inquire for her number, Timberlake wrote. 

Then successful January 2007, Biel went to the archetypal amusement of his FutureSex/LoveSounds Tour successful San Diego, Calif., with friends and they each went backstage afterward. Timberlake was connected his mode northbound to Anaheim and asked the radical if they wanted a thrust backmost to Los Angeles. They accepted, helium and Biel talked the full clip and then helium got her number.

"I did it the aged fashioned way—by telephone," Timberlake told the Hollywood Foreign Press astatine a property league successful 2012 (via Us Weekly). "That's thing I learned from some my stepdad and my grandfather—that determination is simply a happening called chivalry and it doesn't person to dice with the commencement of the internet. The mode I spot it, if you're asking a miss retired connected a date, it's lone close to bash it successful a mode that she tin perceive your voice. I had to beryllium beauteous persistent successful bid to get her to accidental yes. But I person a just magnitude of tenacity and if I privation thing I instrumentality to it. And successful the extremity she agreed." (Ironically, it was rumored years aboriginal that helium dumped her implicit the phone, too.)

A week aboriginal they saw each different again astatine the Golden Globes.

"I was there, like, the infinitesimal the emotion transportation happened," Biel's 7th Heaven co-star Beverley Mitchell recalled on Access Hollywood Live in 2019. "I was like, 'OK, this is happening.'" She added, "It was truthful cute due to the fact that they were like—it's that infinitesimal like, 'I similar you, I deliberation you similar me. It was very, precise sweet. They were decidedly flirting. They were truly cute."

From past on, they were so dating. Casually.

In fact, successful the outpouring of 2007, Scarlett Johansson was asked astir rumors that she was dating Timberlake, and she told Seventeen, "If it's idiosyncratic 1 week, it's going to beryllium idiosyncratic other the adjacent week. It's either maine oregon Jessica Biel."

Busted!

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"We were some inactive seeing different people, keeping ourselves harmless from getting hurt, from truly putting ourselves retired there," Timberlake recalled successful the book. "It took a spot for some of america to admit to ourselves that were were really, truly that into each other. When I came backmost from tour, we spent a period together. After that, I said, 'I truly privation to beryllium exclusive.' And, somehow, she said, 'So bash I.'"

They didn't person their archetypal kiss, however, "for a precise agelong time," Biel said connected The Late Late Show With James Corden in 2019, "because helium was connected tour, and we were talking connected the phone." But she inactive optimistically told her producing spouse Michelle Purple in an email that she was going to wed him. She doesn't retrieve what helium did to merit specified an endorsement that day, but she inactive has the email.

And truthful they settled into a comfy regular of togetherness, taking trips, attending Met Galas and doing the home happening astatine their assorted location bases.

When semipermanent relationships don't enactment retired for immoderate reason, the go-to presumption is often that 1 oregon the other—but usually the woman—wanted to get married, and the different couldn't oblige. That of course is what was implied astir Biel down the road, but the 7th Heaven star surely didn't look to beryllium successful immoderate rush.

"I benignant of spell backmost and distant astir matrimony and kids," she said successful the December 2008 contented of Marie Claire UK. "I consciousness similar if it's an integrated mode for maine and the close clip successful my beingness then, yeah. If it's right, it'll beryllium right—but astatine this moment, that seems wholly foreign... I person truthful galore friends having babies and getting joined and they conscionable privation to enactment maine wherever they are truthful we tin spell to nursery unneurotic and stuff. I'm similar 'Noooo!' I'm resisting!"

And portion they didn't crook down the occasional reddish carpet photograph op, they mutually respected each other's privacy.

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The pursuing year is erstwhile the adventurous mates got turned onto heli-boarding successful Telluride, Colo. Biel—who had previously skydived with ex Chris Evans—explained what she and Timberlake were up to erstwhile David Letterman quizzed her during an quality connected The Late Show about an aerial photograph taken of her maiden voyage. (They repeated the feat connected a travel to Iceland successful 2017.)

The adjacent photograph she was asked to explicate was chiefly of Timberlake leaning successful for an over-the-top hug and buss astatine a Lakers game. "Are you successful determination somewhere?" Letterman quipped.

"That's my fellow and they enactment america up connected the 'Kiss Me Cam'...I mean, he's specified a ham..." Biel said laughing, arsenic the adjacent photograph showed however Timberlake past tried to ascent into her lap. "Who doesn't privation to beryllium mounted successful beforehand of 18,000 people?"

And portion Biel was there, Letterman figured they whitethorn arsenic good speech a small much astir their relationship. "Go ahead, you start," helium cracked. 

"Yes, we're dating," she confirmed, noting it had been "a fewer years." She said adjacent past that determination were a batch of telephone conversations earlier the dating truly got underway. "Oh, ooookay," Letterman cracked. "You are the worst!" she admonished him, playfully swatting him connected the arm. "PG telephone conversations!"

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In May 2010 they attended their 2nd consecutive Met Gala and past Timberlake dove into promoting The Social Network, successful which helium played Napster co-founder Sean Parker. Also that twelvemonth helium had Yogi Bear, featuring him arsenic the dependable of Boo Boo travel out, and helium was making Friends With Benefits with Mila KunisIn Time with Amanda Seyfried and Olivia Wilde, and Bad Teacher with Diaz.

Biel besides had 2 movies retired successful 2010, The A-Team and Garry Marshall's ensemble rom-com Valentine's Day, past she reunited with Marshall to make New Year's Eve and started lining up movies near and right. 

All the makings of a strain connected a relationship.

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In March 2011, reps for the brace released a associated connection confirming that they had breached up.

"Addressing the media speculation regarding Jessica Biel and Justin Timberlake's relationship, we are confirming that they mutually person decided to portion ways," the connection read. "The 2 stay friends and proceed to clasp the highest level of emotion and respect for each other."

Cue the postmortem.

"As a people career-driven person, it was casual for maine to subordinate to that character, to clasp that occupation and marque it the obstacle he's trying to overcome," Timberlake told Vanity Fair a fewer months later, referring to the workaholic commitment-phobe helium played in Friends With Benefits, which came retired that July.

But helium really didn't dependable each that phobic.

He acknowledged that helium had been reasoning astir matrimony and did privation a family. "And arsenic small arsenic six months agone I wouldn't person adjacent thought astir that," helium said, "but present it feels similar a person satellite orbiting around." 

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Boom. He managed to woo Biel back—probably starting with an old-fashioned telephone call—and projected that December amid the scenic snowy mountains of Jackson, Wyo.

"She's a really, really, truly peculiar person," Timberlake described his bride-to-be to the HFPA successful October 2012, doing property for Trouble With the Curve a week earlier their wedding. "Plus, she's really, truly hot!"

"I reply to a higher powerfulness now," helium quipped. "We person a mates of rules successful our relationship. The archetypal regularisation is that I marque her consciousness similar she's getting everything. The 2nd regularisation is that I really bash fto her person her mode successful everything. And, truthful far, it's working."

Against each odds—Hollywood, tabloids, schedules, history—Biel and Timberlake got joined successful 1 of those fairy-tale destination weddings successful Italy connected Oct. 19, 2012.

The bride wore a blush-colored gown by Giambattista Valli, a bully friend. "It was a spot of a leap of religion astatine the time," Biel aboriginal told Elle, describing her formal (and possibly besides the full instauration of marriage), "but it turned retired amended than I could person ever imagined...I felt elegant. And it moved similar a dream." As for the groom, who composed a opus and sang it portion Biel walked down the aisle...

"I called Tom Ford," helium wrote successful Hindsight. "I knew I was getting joined lone 1 clip successful my beingness and I wanted to look a definite way. Tom agreed to formal maine and my groomsmen, which ended up being his wedding acquisition to me. He conscionable did it for each of us. That's the benignant of idiosyncratic helium is. Then helium came connected tour… There was truthful galore of america and Tom Ford dressed america all: me, the dancers, the Tennessee kids, the full band."

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Timberlake besides told the HFPA before his 2012 nuptials, "I deliberation it's important to retrieve that you spell into thing similar matrimony knowing that you don't cognize precise overmuch astir it astatine all. But I bash look astatine the matrimony of my parent and stepdad, and what makes it enactment for them is that it's a squad effort."

He continued, "Some days are amended than different days for each of us—and if we person our bully days and atrocious days individually, and past we're dealing with idiosyncratic else's bully and atrocious days connected apical of that, it's going to adhd up. My parent is simply a shot of occurrence successful the satellite and I emotion that astir her. But what I person learned from my stepdad is thing arsenic important, which is patience and compassion. Because erstwhile you are surviving with idiosyncratic else, those 2 qualities spell a agelong way."

The rumors that things weren't going good for the pair, adjacent erstwhile they were hubby and wife, didn't spell distant each astatine once, but they managed to artifact retired the noise.

And successful 2014, erstwhile Timberlake's 20/20 Experience World Tour was getting underway, Biel informed him during—what else—a telephone (FaceTime astatine least, by then) that they were going to person a baby. 

"I had conscionable finished a show, and I spell into my car and took my telephone out," helium wrote successful Hindsight. "There was a substance from Jess, successful each superior letters. It work 'Call Me Now.' I FaceTimed her backmost immediately. She answered with this look connected her face, and I knew precisely what she was going to say. Instead, she conscionable held up the gestation test, and we some started bawling. I ended the circuit aboriginal truthful I could beryllium astatine location and instrumentality attraction of my family."

They welcomed Silas connected April 8, 2015. 

"Until I became a father," Timberlake explained, "I thought I had things to beryllium acrophobic of. Now I recognize that I don't person to conquer my fears. I conscionable person to larn to unrecorded with them. Instead of looking for sunlight to erase that shadow, I cognize that it's ever going to beryllium there. Everything you're doing and arsenic an big is to effort to heal immoderate you've built up from your childhood. It's your shadiness that follows you around, and the lone clip a shadiness disappears is erstwhile you measurement into the darkness. And past you larn to measurement backmost out. Now I tin yet spot the narration betwixt each of it, and it's beautiful. In each of its ugliness, it's beautiful. Understanding that allows maine the stillness."

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He also said that being a genitor "made maine look astatine relationships successful a caller way. It's made maine deliberation astir who my parents are arsenic people, and however that affected maine past and has contributed to who I americium now—and however each that mightiness impact my child. It makes maine wonderment however my lad volition spot maine erstwhile helium grows up. It makes maine privation to beryllium much thoughtful."

Mission accomplished.

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Biel, who returned to TV in 2017 executive-producing and starring successful USA's The Sinner, was nominated for some a Golden Globe and an Emmy, and Timberlake made for the astir enthusiastic cheering section every measurement of the way.

If she wins, "I mightiness beryllium obnoxious," Justin teased E!'s Giuliana Rancic connected the Emmys reddish carpet in 2018. "I mightiness bash thing obnoxious... I'm precise bully astatine obnoxious!" 

"I would anticipation for thing little than, like, truly inappropriate," Biel agreed.

"I'm much geeked retired than she is," Timberlake added. "I saw however overmuch she put into it. I'm conscionable truthful arrogant to beryllium present and spot this hap for her." 

What helium and Biel person built unneurotic has besides proved coagulated capable to withstand the occasional tabloid firestorm, specified arsenic erstwhile pictures surfaced of him holding Palmer co-star Alisha Wainwright's manus during a nighttime retired portion they were filming successful 2019 and helium went each retired with his nationalist apology—or erstwhile Timberlake's behaviour toward Spears was relitigated aft the 2021 documentary Framing Britney Spears premiered.

After he stated that helium was atrocious "for the clip successful my beingness wherever my actions contributed to the problem, wherever I spoke retired of turn, oregon did not talk up for what was right," Biel commented connected his post, "I emotion you."

She's had the champion spot successful the house to witnesser however he's changed implicit the past 15 years, aft all.

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To Marie Claire, trying to satiate the inevitable curiosity astir however their narration continued to work, Biel said successful 2017, "We person akin values; we judge successful loyalty, honesty. We similar to person fun. We similar a batch of the aforesaid things. Also, successful the business, we're each precise career-oriented, and you person to beryllium a small selfish. I recognize that astir my peers—about being focused and driven—and if you tin find that and idiosyncratic who shares the aforesaid values arsenic you, it's like: Score!"

And Timberlake knows erstwhile to cede the spotlight.

"With Justin, he's truthful blessed for me," she told ELLE.com when The Sinner premiered. "I ever accidental he's my biggest fan."

That enactment runs some ways, of course. On his birthday, which was conscionable days up of his show astatine the Super Bowl LII Halftime Show successful 2018, Biel wrote Timberlake a note of ultimate confidence, predicting a "spectacular twelvemonth ahead" and adding, "I emotion you, you blistery dad.. I'm here, close by your side, OG instrumentality girl #1."

Their lives person lone go much spectacular since, with the summation of Phineas to their family and Biel's continued occurrence arsenic an enforcement shaper of The Sinner and the Freeform series Cruel Summer. She also played real-life axe murderer Candy Montgomery successful this spring's Hulu series Candy.

"I'm fascinated by her. She's everything, man," Timberlake besides wrote successful his book. "She conscionable perpetually surprises maine with who she is, and who she's becoming, and I truly anticipation I bash the aforesaid for her. I'm excited to spot what she's going to bash next. I aftermath up and rotation implicit and look astatine her, and I'm inspired."

Fans—of Timberlake, of Biel, of love, of commitment, of balance, of forgiveness—look at this household and, without a doubt, they're inspired too.

(Originally published Nov. 2, 2018, astatine 4 a.m. PT)

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