The Ultimatum’s Xander Shares What’s “Hard” to Watch Back

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The Ultimatum: Queer Love's Stars Talk Couples Drama & SHADY Vanessa

Xander Boger admits that she didn't request to support Vanessa Papa so hard.

The Ultimatum: Queer Love star got candid astir watching her love communicative with Vanessa play retired connected the Netflix show. 

"There's tons of hard things I deliberation for maine to watch, erstwhile I ticker it backmost and bespeak connected the acquisition successful general," Xander exclusively told E! News. "But it is hard to spot maine perpetually defending her."

The carnal therapist explained that sticking up for Vanessa aft chap formed members accused her of being manipulative and attention-seeking "made consciousness astatine the aforesaid time" due to the fact that of their past together. 

"She was my spouse for 4 years and she was idiosyncratic that I privation to protect," Xander continued. "I don't similar the thought of feeling similar that idiosyncratic is being connected ganged up connected oregon bullied."

Xander wanted the formed to person "openness" toward Vanessa, but present sees different broadside of the situation. "I deliberation that my archetypal thought is, ‘Oh, this is my idiosyncratic that I've known the longest. I request to basal up for her,'" Xander said. "But I didn't. I didn't request to bash that astatine all."

Xander now recognizes how the different couples connected the show had her back as the play unfolded.

"I'm really truthful thankful that these radical that did not adjacent cognize maine precise well, the different formed members, were truthful accepting and loving and supportive toward me," she said, "that they were looking retired for the champion for me."

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The Hawaii-based star initially wanted to spell connected the amusement to summation clarity successful their relationship, arsenic she felt Vanessa was "hot and cold" astir wherever they stood. "You're saying you privation to beryllium with me, but you're besides saying that I consciousness similar a champion friend," Xander recalled to E!, "and I don't privation that."

That wishy-washy mindset made Vanessa an aboriginal villain in the season, with castmates Lexi Goldberg and Yoly Rojas calling her retired for allegedly being rude oregon scheming.

"Within truly, nary edits, wrong 10 minutes of gathering maine and [partner] Mal, she insinuated her and Mal were going to beryllium similar proceedings wives together," Yoly told E!, recalling that Vanessa's toast to her ain aboriginal with Mal "was truthful disrespectful." 

And that wasn't the lone play with Vanessa. "Going forward, she tries to instigate small things and bash things for attention. It was conscionable not my benignant of person," Yoly shared while reflecting connected immoderate off-camera moments. "There was nary Lexi coercing each of america not to similar her."

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But amid the criticism, Vanessa has defended her existent reasons for being connected the show, saying she was determination similar everyone other to fig retired if she wanted to get married. (Watch her interrogation with E! News here.)

New episodes of The Ultimatum: Queer Love driblet connected Netflix June 7. 

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