Why Hayley Kiyoko Is Uncertain About Marriage With Becca Tilley

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Becca Tilley Gushes About Being “In Love” With Hayley Kiyoko (Exclusive)

Hayley Kiyoko knows what she needs from Becca Tilley. 

And portion the "Girls Like Girls" vocalist gushed astir being happily successful emotion with her "amazing" girlfriend of six years, she admitted she and the Bachelor Nation alum aren't rather reasoning astir wedding bells astatine the moment.

"I don't cognize if we wanna get married," Hayley exclusively told E! News' Francesca Amiker at the Wizards Beyond Waverly Place premiere Oct. 28. "We person a precise unconventional beingness and we emotion it."

Still, the 33-year-old didn't springiness a steadfast no, adding, "We'll spot what happens successful the future."

And Hayley couldn't assistance but rave about the beingness she and Becca person built together.

"I deliberation a narration is each astir growth," she said, "and erstwhile you're consenting to turn unneurotic and enactment 1 different past it conquers all. It's truly wonderful." (For much from Hayley and others connected the Wizards Beyond Waverly Place red carpet, tune into E! News tonight, Oct. 29, astatine 11 p.m.)

Becca echoed a akin sentiment to E! News successful February, saying that portion they had discussed the thought of marriage, they were "good close now."

"Hayley and I volition speech astir things often wherever it's like, 'When we person a wedding what does it look like?'" the 35-year-old explained. "And conscionable making definite we're connected the aforesaid leafage truthful that 1 of america isn't like, let's bash a expansive concern and different person's like, I privation thing much intimate."

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But for now, the conversations are conscionable conversations. And contempt their emotion for each other, the mates were cautious astir being nationalist during the commencement of their romance—they didn't corroborate their relationship until 4 years aboriginal in May 2022—which Becca noted came down to her ain thoughts connected the matter.

"[Hayley] was like, 'I americium truthful proud, and I person worked truthful hard to beryllium arrogant of who I americium that I don't privation to consciousness similar I'm backmost successful the closet,'" she said connected the Made It Out podcast successful May. "And I'm like, 'I besides don't privation you to consciousness similar that. But if you tin benignant of spot my perspective, I'm navigating being a nationalist person, and having a nationalist platform, being from The Bachelor, it is truly hard.'"

But contempt immoderate challenges, Becca is affirmative she has recovered the one.

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"When radical talked astir being successful love, I did not get it," she told E!. "I was similar y'all are being a small melodramatic astir the full thing."

After she met Hayley, Becca says she yet understood "the hype."

"She's conscionable the astir peculiar human," the podcaster shared. "Honestly, I've ne'er been 1 to beryllium capable to explicit my feelings. And she conscionable says the sweetest things successful passing." 

To spot much of the couple's cutest photos implicit the years, support reading.

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Scoring that First Impression Rose

"We took this representation aft 5 minutes," vocalist Hayley Kiyoko posted on Instagram of gathering now-girlfriend Becca Tilley astatine the April 2018 merchandise enactment for her debut workplace medium Expectations. "Her garment said 'no clip for romance'…..it’s been 4 years. I conjecture she had immoderate time."

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Private, But Not Hidden

The caller mates posed unneurotic astatine NYLON's Annual Young Hollywood Party successful May 2018, conscionable weeks aft meeting. Though they didn't station associated snaps connected Instagram for years, "Hayley and I were ne'er secret," Bachelor alum Tilley stressed connected her Scrubbing In podcast. "Like, we were precise overmuch ourselves, we held hands successful public, we kissed."

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Coming Out Party

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Back Where It All Began

When Kiyoko released her 2nd workplace medium Panorama successful July 2022, her woman was determination to sing her praises. "I americium truthful excited for everyone to yet get to perceive and get mislaid successful this beauteous satellite you created successful this album!" she wrote connected Instagram. "You are unthinkable & I emotion you truthful much!"

The vocalist delivered a akin chorus, telling E! News astatine the time, "I'm truthful grateful to person Becca successful my life. She has been an unthinkable spouse and enactment strategy and cheerleader and honestly makes maine laughter during a batch of stressful times."

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No Longer a Mystery

Jinkies, guys! The brace nailed their archetypal Insta authoritative couples' costume, stepping retired arsenic Velma and Daphne from Scooby Doo, Where Are You!

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Best Believe They're Still Bejeweled

When Taylor Swift added different Grammy to her postulation at the 2023 awards show, Tilley and Kiyoko helped her marque the full spot shimmer astatine her aft party. "And by the way, we went retired past night," Kiyoko shared connected Instagram

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Feeling Fearless

They don't cognize however it gets amended than this. Six months aft partying with Swift post-Grammys, Kiyoko and Tilley took their emotion communicative to the L.A. limb of her Eras Tour connected Aug. 4, 2023. 

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Changed For Good

"I deliberation that being with idiosyncratic who is truthful definite of themselves, arsenic a spouse makes you privation to beryllium similar that due to the fact that it made maine go… Do I request to marque myself smaller oregon marque myself little than who I americium to marque definite [people are] happy?" Tilley (in their 2023 Wicked-themed Halloween costumes) said during a May 2024 quality connected the Made It Out podcast. "I don't privation to person to bash that anymore. I privation to person radical astir maine that emotion each portion of me. I don't privation to person to lessen myself for different radical and she doesn't bash that and I've ever loved that astir her."

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And All Their Wishes Came True

Recognizing Kiyoko's April 3 day arsenic "the VERY archetypal measurement to america uncovering each other," Tilley wrote successful a heartfelt 2024 tribute, "I emotion your passion… for life, for your work, for food, for the radical you love. I emotion however overmuch you attraction for radical and ever basal for the radical who request it most. I emotion however you privation to archer maine astir and amusement maine everything that inspires you and makes you laugh."

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