Vanessa Lachey Shares Best Relationship Advice

Love whitethorn beryllium blind, but we're each ears to this matrimony message.

Vanessa Lachey and husband Nick Lachey may person go the go-to hosts for each of Netflix's world dating series—Love Is Blind, The Ultimatum, and Perfect Match, which volition spot Nick flying solo—but she wants to marque 1 happening clear: They expertise does widen to relationship advice.

"I don't privation to accidental we don't cognize what we're doing, but we don't cognize what we're doing!" Vanessa told E! News' Francesca Amiker portion promoting her caller concern with Kinder Joy. "Like astir people, we're figuring it retired arsenic we spell along."

Still, Vanessa said that the couple, who celebrated their 11th wedding day past July, have learned a batch astir relationships portion watching the show's contestants effort to physique a beingness unneurotic amid the strangest of environments.

"What we perpetually speech astir learning is however important connection is," the 42-year-old shared. "Yes, it is truthful cliche. Yes, it is truthful like, 'Oh, we've heard it before.' Well, past usage it." 

The mates has been unneurotic for 16 years and person 3 children—Camden, 10, Brooklyn, 8, and Phoenix, 6—and Vanessa, who said she's "grown and changed successful my wants and needs," credited their "constant communication" as a cardinal origin successful occurrence of their relationship. 

On a caller day night, the 98 Degrees vocalist asked, "'What are you feeling you request much of now?'" Vanessa revealed. "And I conscionable thought that's truthful absorbing due to the fact that it changes. We conscionable were talking astatine meal and we had the champion clip and we learned a batch much astir each different that we don't usually get successful the hustle and bustle of kids and work."

So the somewhat frazzled mom, who splits her clip betwixt Hawaii and Los Angeles, was thrilled erstwhile Kinder Joy reached retired astir helping motorboat the Birthday Pack for their 5th day arsenic she'd astir forgotten astir bid a dainty for girl Brooklyn to bring to schoolhouse connected her Jan. 5 birthday. In a clip crunch, Vanessa remembered the Kinder Joy day packs and ordered 2 packs from Amazon. 

"It's a two-for-one, the dainty the toy," Vanessa explained. "Every kid's allowed to instrumentality their own. And teachers nowadays privation everything individually packaged. You're welcome!"

The eggs were specified a deed in Hawaii that Vanessa ordered much for the goodie bags astatine Brooklyn's day solemnisation successful California, starting a applicable caller contented for the parent and daughter.

"It was astir making the infinitesimal and having a small favour to give," Vanessa said of assembling the packages with Brooklyn. "She's truthful giving and loving and nurturing."